First my oldest Daughter Alexandria passes away.
Second, my Fiance John passes away.
Now, my Dad calls me and tells me that my MOM (step Mom but she isn't a step anything to me), who was diagnosed with Liver Cancer is not doing well, and if she lives til December it will be a miracle.
What the hell... I mean can my Family take any more heartache? Why do i have to be soo damn strong? Why are the ones i love dying? Why are all the good ones needed... right now?
My Dad was going to sit with my Mom and tell her the prognosis this weekend. But, my Mom (as bold and brassy as she is) asked the Doctor the right questions and he (by law) had to answer them. So, my Dad was with my Mom when she was told by the Doctor.
See, my Mom & Dad use to work together (that is how they met). They have been through all kinds of rough and painful things. They have been married (Friday the 13 was their wedding date) for 23 years! Mom took me in as one of her's when my Biological (whom had custody of me), chose to give me away to the State of Maryland when i was 15 years old. I guess my biological wanted her Man instead of me (she did get to keep my younger 2 siblings). My Moms name is Margie! She is the most funny, witty, intelligent woman i know. She taught me what it was to be a good Mother. She taught me that being a parent at any age (as long as you give it your all and sacrifice everything) you can be your children's HERO!
My children and I will be coming out to Maryland when my Mom requests us, but not until then. I know donations are being taken for her medical bills & to keep paying my Mom & Dads bills so he can be with her til the very end. If you would like to donate please contact me and I'll give you the info, or you can paypal me at hollypavlyik@gmail.com. Everyone please keep my Mom in your thoughts and prayers.
MOM I LOVE YOU SOO MUCH!!!
Your Other Daughter,
Holly
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